20 ways to deal with being in your 20s

By Emily McLaughlin

Lately, I have found myself struggling with the concept of being in my 20s. This, I believe, has been brought on by the unfortunately realization that I am not going back to UMass this fall. It’s odd to think that the place you called home for the last 4 years is, in fact, no longer your home.

I am seeing a lot of my friends struggle in the same way. Whether they are getting accustomed to living back home, adapting to a new job, struggling with the stress of finding a job or simply sinking into a post-college depression, they are finding that being in your 20s is harder than anticipated.

What we have to remember, however, is that these are the best days of our lives. High school was good, college was great, but these next few years are going to be amazing. We are well on our way to being the people we’ve wanted to be for all these years. Our wildest dreams are about to come true… so embrace it.

Below are 20 ways to deal with being in your twenties. This list is not just for the college grad, but for the current college student, the young professional, the world traveler or whatever you categorize yourself as. These tips come from my personal experiences, the experiences of my close friends, the lululemon manifesto and some casual research collected from Though Catalog.

1. Let go. Letting go is important. Let go of the fact that college is over. Let go of your hatred for living at home. Let go of the fact that you haven’t landed your dream job yet. Let go of negative and abusive relationships. Just let go. Your twenties are about becoming who you have wanted to be.

2. Exercise. Obviously this is on the list… and you can all hate me/make fun of me for it all you want. But, I truly believe that sweating once a day can cure any stress, illness or negative feeling your have. The scientific and medical worlds back me up. Make it a habit.

3. Do something you love every day – smiling is important. For many of us, college has come to a close, which means that our routines have changed and the company we surround ourselves with has also changed. We aren’t around all the people and things we have grown to love over the past few years… but there are still so many reasons to smile.

I love… exploring.

4. Find hobbies. Paired with “doing something you love every day” is finding new hobbies. You are most likely adjusting to a new place (or fifty) sometime in your twenties, which means you are going to have to find a new gym, a new club… new hobbies all together.  You can’t hang out at your campus job off-shift, you don’t have intramural sports to play and Mt. Sugarloaf isn’t down the street for hiking purposes. It also might be a little weird if you keep showing up to those campus newspaper meetings since you’re not turning in any material. Learn about your surrounding area and what is there for 20-year-olds. There are millions of hobbies you can pick up to occupy your time and make you smile… find ‘em!

I love finding beautiful hidden gems.

5. Do what you have to do for you, and for no one else. Just because your friend joined a pilates studio doesn’t mean you have to join. Just because your parents really like having you home doesn’t mean you have to stay there. Just because your boyfriend thinks you shouldn’t take the job doesn’t mean you shouldn’t take the job. You are in your twenties and are capable of making your own decisions. Do what you have to do, do what you want to do, FOR YOU. Do things that are going to make you happy.

6. Learn to balance friends, family and relationships. Admittedly, this is one of the hardest things for me, especially while in this phase of my life. I graduated, I have a job, but I live in several differently places. I keep outfits in my car, gym clothes at work and house-hop for dinners. This summer, it has been hard to balance friends and family without having a home to call my own (which is changing soon… cross your fingers!). Whatever your situation, try your hardest to be the best friend, daughter, son, grandchild, sibling and significant other you can be. Your own happiness is dependent on the happiness of the people around you (so says the Dalai Lama).

7. Be positive — negativity is unattractive. Doesn’t that grumpy person always put you in a bad mood? Enough said.

Click the photo to see this Veggie Sticks recipe! :)

8. Learn to cook. I can not stress this enough. Learn to cook in your twenties! Cook with friends, cook on rainy Sundays… just cook! Learn how to make breakfast, lunch/dinner, dessert and appetizers. When you start, practice one dish from each category until you have it mastered. This skill will come in handy when you are trying to swoon that new guy or when you are asked to bring an item to a cookout/dinner party.

9. Don’t compare yourself to others. You are an individual and you have your own path to take in life. Don’t wast your time comparing yourself to others… you are not them!

10. Become a regular. Everyone wants to have their own Central Perk or MacLaren’s Pub. In Amherst I had found my coffee shop and my bar: Shelburne Falls and McMurphy’s Uptown Tavern. Moving home threw me off and I haven’t found my regular spots. Moving into my own apartment will help me settle down and find some new shops and bars to call home – you should all do the same.

Find a new favorite spot. #LMP anyone? ;)

11. Say yes to things, even if they scare you. If the only reason you are thinking of saying ‘no’ is because you are afraid, then it is inexcusable. We spend a lot of time rationalizing just to find a reason to say ‘no.’ This is time wasted. As lululemon says, “do one things a day that scares you.”

12. Follow through with your to-do list. I make a to-do list almost every day… very rarely do I get things checked off. They seem to just roll over to another to-do list and then get lost in the woodwork. Don’t let “make doctors appointment,” “go to the gym” and “clean car” linger on your lists.

13. Learn to budget and save. Last summer, I was really into couponing and saving money on groceries among other things. I wish that this was still a habit of mine… I’ll get back into it! I would save so much money at the grocery store just by clipping some coupons stolen out of Cumberland Farms’ Sunday papers — kind of a sin that I am a journalism student and didn’t want to pay for the paper, I know. In addition to couponing, set weekly and monthly budgets for yourself. Set aside a certain amount of money for food, bills and weekend fun.

Your family is aways there for you.

14. Let people help you. This is a hard one. In college we learn to live (somewhat) independently, then when we graduate we begin a new part of our lives… one that typically requires a little help from parents and others. Whether you need to move home, have your parents co-sign a lease or have you family help you find a job… accept the help.  Chances are, they want to help you. Personally, I am fiercely independent… and accepting help is hard — but I’m getting better-ish.

15. Don’t dwell. This kind of goes with #1, Let go. Don’t dwell on what could have been, what almost was, what isn’t. Don’t hold grudges or dwell on the past. Keep your mind in the present and look forward to all the good coming in your future.

16. Appreciate what you have – the grass is always going to seem greener on the other side.

The grass is always going to seem greener elsewhere. No matter where you’re at, whom you’re involved with or what the scenario is — the imagination will visualize other places, people and situations in a better light. Sure there are instances where change is an improvement, but there are just as many where that’s not the case. The city you live in isn’t as bad as you perceive it, and moving to Los Angeles won’t equal automatic success. The girlfriend or boyfriend who you’re unappreciative of may seem less appealing than the single life, but you could be mistaken. We’ve got to recognize the value of what we currently have, and then see if it’s possible to repair or improve instead of tossing it aside for ‘new’ stuff.

17. Patience. Finding a job taught me to practice patience. Momma always said, “Patience is a virtue,” which didn’t resonate during my childhood years but makes a lot of sense now. Do good and things will fall in line. Be patient while waiting to hear back from a perspective job, be patient in the apartment search, be patient with your parents as you learn to live together again, be patient with your friends who are struggling in some of the same ways as yourself… just… be… patient.

18. Learn to date casually. Being in your twenties is all about meeting new people and building lifelong relationships with others… but not everyone you meet is meant to be in your life forever. Learn to date and hook-up casually. Sometimes dating might lead to disappointment – learn to embrace that as a learning experience. Acknowledge that every relationship is not necessarily meant to be a serious one. It is easy to get caught up in the pressure of “settling down” in our twenties, but that tradition is slowly fading. 

19. Confidence.The rest of the world envies people in their twenties. We are, as Snoop (Lion) and Wiz Khalifa say, “young, wild and free.” Be confident about the person you are and the person you are becoming.

20. Always keep a pint of Ben & Jerry’s for emergencies. What else needs to be said about that?

Find peace, find balance. This is life. Life is beautiful.

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Curvy girl

By Allie DeLay

People come in all different shapes and sizes. We have our own quirks that make up our personalities, our own pet peeves, and our own dreams and ambitions. Each person has their own piece of mind and the differences among us are what make life interesting. So why has our society programmed us to believe there is just one acceptable body type that we must fit? Why is there this burning desire to be thin among women? Can’t being healthy be enough?

I am by no means a stick figure. I have had curves all my life. Blessed with an hourglass physique, I can’t remember a time when I wasn’t bigger than the ideal body type. In elementary school, I towered over my peers and by high school I was strapping the girls down with an XL sports bra, while my friends ran around in gym class without a care in the world. It took a while for me to accept my body and be comfortable with my figure.

During my junior year of college, I began lifting weights and more regularly, along with my cardio workouts and I made a few healthy changes to my diet. I am by no means crazy about counting calories and I do have a weakness for a good slice of Antonio’s but by eating more fruits, vegetables, and lean meats I gradually changed my diet and cared more about the food I was consuming. Slowly, I began noticing changes. I felt better. I was more energetic, happier, and less stressed. Physically, I saw more definition in my muscles, I built up a greater stamina, and little things like my hair and skin looked better.

Everything about me was significantly healthier. Then I went in for my yearly checkup and stepped on the scale…

I found that the number had increased from the year before. My heart sank and I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. But then it hit me. MUSCLE WEIGHS MORE THAN FAT. In all aspects of my life I am a healthier person than I was a year ago. I feel better, look better, and love the way I am.

In that moment, standing on the scale, in the middle of the doctor’s office, I realized a number couldn’t define me. There is no way I will ever be a thin girl, fitting that ideal small body type. I have been blessed with curves and a body that, albeit bigger than other girls, is beautiful in its own way.

There are a lot of girls that spend their lives trying to reach that ideal number. I’m here to say, “Put the scales away.” Live your life. Enjoy your life. Exercise for you. Eat right for you. The pounds may come off and some may come back on. But if you maintain that healthy lifestyle you will be a healthier person no matter what that (for most of us) three-digit number on the scale says back to you.

As the saying goes “Being fit is better than being thin.” Embrace those curves. They are fabulous. And in case you ever need some encouragement… the band Mika puts it best, “BIG GIRL, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL.”

Trying to lose? Lose the fork.

By Emily McLaughlin

Okay, so the title might seem a little harsh… but I swear this post contains nothing but good vibes. Are you trying to lose weight? Well, do as I say… and get rid of your forks.

For those of us who have struggled or are struggling with our weight, eating right and exercising more often are easier said than done. Once we do get into a regular exercise routine and change our diets for the better–the weight, oftentimes, still hangs on.

For me, the problem has never been exercise. I absolutely love to drip sweat at the gym. Also, I change my gym routine quite often, mostly out of boredom. My problem is not  eating right. I love cooking, eating vegetables and making even the most decadent of dishes as healthy as possible.

My problem then, you ask? I eat too much. I tend to get really excited about food, then I shovel it into my mouth like coal in a furnace. I pounce on food like it’s going to disappear if I don’t eat it quickly.

A solution for this? CHOPSTICKS. Obviously, my chopstick-use is highly influenced by my love for sushi, obsession with Asian dishes and my friendship with Ryo. I recently acquired a couple of pairs of chopsticks after Ryo’s trip to Japan and, as you could have guessed, I’m using them all the time whether it is breakfast, lunch or dinner.

Yesterday’s lunch

Chopsticks force me to slow down, first because my skills are lacking, then because they can’t pick up as much as my fork. Once you figure our how to use them, you’ll realize that you find yourself chewing more as you struggle to pick up your next bite. You’ll also realize you are full before you finish that entire plate of food.

How could I not use these every day!?

There you have it. Chopsticks are the answer. Haha, of course… if you are trying to lose weight, don’t go tell you friends that all you have to do it buy some chopsticks. Don’t go into your parents’ house and tell them, “Emily said to get rid of our forks!” Eating slower (therefore consuming a little less per day) is a major component of weight-loss, but your priority should be getting into a regular exercise routine and making your diet as clean as can be… then invest in some chopsticks. ;)

Happy eating, happy exercising and happy chopping.

5 tips for those with hypoglycemia

By Cassie Brown (Hard Body with Cassie B.)

Cassie Brown

A gift and a curse, hypoglycemia is a condition that is not well understood by those who do not suffer from it–which is why it more often seems like a curse than a gift. Let me tell you though, in a nation where obesity rates are skyrocketing, I’ve learned to view my condition as a blessing.

Why? Hypoglycemia forces you to evaluate your diet, (and no, I don’t say “diet” assuming that you’re on a diet, I say “diet” meaning: your regular eating habits). It forces you to analyze what and how much you eat at one time and how it makes your body feel in the following hours. Controlling the fatigue, weakness, and mood swings you experience with hypoglycemia cannot be done with medications. Ultimately, you have to find the diet that works best for you and feels best for you. You learn as you go along and as your body changes, but to save you some time, here are a few ideas that work for me that I think you should try too:

  1. NEVER skip breakfast. EVER. When you sleep through the night, you are fasting, causing your blood sugar to drop. As soon as you wake up, you need to “break the fast” (see how creative the English language was with that one?!). I always break the fast with a bowl of whole grain cereal because cereal is a perfect source of carbohydrate, which, once it’s ingested, is broken down to glucose (sugar) and then used replenish your blood sugar level. With hypoglycemia, sugar is like your caffeine; you can’t start your day without it.
  2. Eat often. To be honest, a bowl of cereal will never hold me over until lunch, (unless it’s the weekend when I get a later start to my day). 2-3 hours after my bowl of cereal, it’s time for breakfast #2! Personally, I’ve found that eating a “Mini Meal” every 3 hours keeps me most alert, energetic, and most importantly, happy.
  3. Portion control. This is super important for the sake of following suggestion #2. If you eat too much, to the point of feeling full, you’re not going to want to eat within the next 2-4 hours. Because your body works like this: even though your stomach stays full and your body is digesting your last big meal, your blood sugar will already peak and begin to fall. As you eat your “Mini Meals”, others will give you a hard time about not eating enough, but people who don’t have the condition don’t understand that you shouldn’t feel stuffed after you eat because you need to feel hungry within the next few hours to manage your blood sugar level.
  4. Keep snacks on hand. Always have something to nibble on everywhere you go. The one thing I’ve learned about this condition is that your blood sugar will always drop at the most inconvenient times. Why? Because when we’re busy or out of our regular routine we tend to neglect our regular diet. Your body notices when you’re doing things differently and then it responds, forcing you to bring your attention back to it. I always have a tin of nuts in my car and fruit, yogurt, or granola bars in my purse to back me up when I’m in a pinch.

    Hypoglycemia can hit at inconvenient times.

  5. Listen to your body. As you become accustomed to living with hypoglycemia and figure out what and how to eat, you’ll become more in touch with how your body responds to different situations. Pay attention to how your body feels when you’re sick. Vomiting and diarrhea can really throw off your blood sugar, so try to replenish your body immediately. Something else I’ve discovered about my body is that I cannot eat sugary junk foods early in the day, like a doughnut at breakfast, because when my body comes down from that sugar high in the afternoon, I crash hard. So when I want to indulge, I save the sweets for later, and then when I crash, it’s bedtime. You’ll discover these nuances with your body too – it’s all trial and error.

When you’re first diagnosed, you’ll feel like this condition is a real pain in your backside–and that feeling will come back in other moments in your life. In the end though, giving your body the attention and nourishment it deserves – some “TLC”, if you will – every day of your life makes for a healthier body and mind. In a society where carrying around excess fat on your body doesn’t seem to be consequence enough, I hope that you choose happiness and a focused mind over a sub par diet. I leave you now with all the wisdom I have to offer about living with hypoglycemia and wish you all the best in discovering your ideal diet. Good luck!

Get in control… live freely!

Order like an expert: Salad Dressing

By Lauren Duffy

In my last article about what really goes on in restaurant kitchens, I shared the dirty little secret of cooks touching food without gloves, specifically meat. I wish I could say that that’s the last gross but true fact about many many restaurant kitchens, but unfortunately there’s a lot more that goes on behind closed kitchen doors.

Salmon salad

When many health enthusiasts dine out, they tend to skip right to the salad section of the menu to scope out what they think is the healthiest choice on the menu. But, newsflash, truly healthy salads on restaurant menus are pretty hard to come by. Believe it or not, some salads on menus can have the same amount of fat and calories as a cheeseburger, and I’m not just talking about the salads that are smothered in creamy dressings and topped with bacon. Even salads that are advertised as healthy can have a calorie count through the roof.

Let me just state the obvious– any salad that has creamy dressing, fried chicken, bacon, and other unhealthy ingredients on top isn’t really a salad, it’s more like lettuce with fat on top. Appetizing, right? Just do yourself a favor and overlook those menu items.

But when you’re looking through the salad options that look healthy, I can give you one piece of advice: Always order your dressing on the side. It seems kind of fundamental, but trust me, it’s a good rule to follow.

Even if you’re getting the “light” dressing option on your salad, still make sure it’s on the side. Salad preparers in the kitchen don’t put dressing on with your diet in mind, they do it based on how it makes the salad look. Taste matters to chefs, but so does the presentation of the food. They put some dressing on and if it looks too dry they add more. They want the lettuce to glisten just right for when it is presented at the table. So before you know it, your salad could have half a bottle of dressing on it (or more) just to ensure that it looks good when served. The calories in that much dressing adds up… fast. So you’re better off being in control of your salad and putting on the dressing by yourself.

Making healthy choices at restaurants can be tricky, but it’s most definitely do-able.

Order like an expert: Meat

By Lauren Duffy

Chicken Parm

When I worked as a waitress, I, like most servers, was trained to ask customers certain questions as I took orders. Some of these questions included “What kind of dressing would you like?” and “What kind of bread would you like?”. But one of the most important questions a server will as you is: “How would you like your meat cooked?”. When ordering red meat at a restaurant, you can choose to have your meat cooked in 1 of 5 ways: rare (red), medium rare (red/pink), medium (pink), medium well (pink/brown), and well done (brown or fully cooked). While many believe that these 5 choices are completely based on the colors of the cooked meat, the choices are actually based partially on the temperature of the meat. Well done is piping hot while rare actually has a somewhat cool and uncooked center. After seeing the preparation of meat in several different restaurant kitchens, I’ve come to the conclusion that I will never ever order a meat cooked medium or less.. EVER! Here’s why…

For one, since the meats are more on the pink/red side, they are not fully cooked and are more prone to disease and bacteria. Gross. But what is even more nasty is a secret of the kitchen: chefs and cooks do not wear gloves when cooking (as far as I have seen). So when a cook touches fish then vegetables then meat then sauce then raw eggs, all of it stays on his hand; frankly, their hands get pretty darn raunchy by the end of the dinner rush. As I said before, they judge how cooked a meat is by its temperature in the center of the cut. But when orders are flying in and the chefs are rushed, there’s no time to grab a thermometer to test the meat, so instead they start touching it to feel if its cool or lukewarm. Yes, their dirty hands touch the meat, and if it feels like its the right temperature, they serve it to you. They serve it to you covered in god knows what from their fingers from earlier food preparation. You could get any kind of germ or illness from this handling, so I suggest you avoid ordering the meat on the reddish side; the more cooked the meat is, the less they handle it and the better off you are.

Order like an expert: Introduction

By Lauren Duffy

Before I worked at UMass Campus Recreation, I worked in several different restaurants for 3 years. I started off working in the kitchen in a fast-food chain pizza place and moved on to waitressing at a couple of family-oriented restaurants. My time working at these places showed me the best of the best and the worst of the worst of food preparation and service. I’ve seen some of the deepest and darkest secrets of restaurant kitchens and its taught me how to read between the menu lines and recognize foods to avoid when ordering. I figured I’d share some of these secrets with you…

Meat

Salad Dressing

…more to come.

Happy eating. :)

Pizza pizza!

Tip Six: Drop Some Money, Drop Some Pounds

Let’s review…
Tip Number One: Moderation and Purity
Tip Number Two: Find a Work Out that Works for You
Tip Number Three: Don’t Fall into the Compliments Trap
Tip Number Four: Cut the Excuses
Tip Number Five: Set A Goal

Tip Number Six: Drop Some Money, Drop Some Pounds

Being in college has made me absolutely dread one thing– spending money. I think that each and every one of us on campus are generally in the same boat: we’re spending money only on what is essential (well, mostly), and we tend to think twice about spending money on anything that could be considered a luxury. We have tight budgets and we like to keep the number on our bank statements as high as we can.

But, naturally, we are only human and sometimes we have to splurge on ourselves.. even if we are trying to be frugal. It may sound crazy, but I’ve found that when it comes to weight loss, sometimes dropping some money can actually lead to dropping a few pounds.

Now I don’t mean we should spend money on those hilarious Shake-Weights or on the next “miracle” weight loss product on some cheesy infomercial, but rather we should spend money on little trinkets that help motivate us to stay healthy.

For example, we’re told frequently that part of the secret of losing weight is drinking water. It keeps us hydrated, full, and it can keep our system running smoothly. But, water can sometimes be boring, plain, dull, flavor-less, unappealing, etc. It never really appealed to me. So, a while back when I decided that I needed to drink water more often, I went out and bought a brand new water bottle. It had one of those “crazy straws” built in and it was even in my favorite color. . . and it was really shiny, so that was a plus (hee hee). As childish as it was, I was SO excited to drink out of it! Next thing I knew, I was drinking water all the time and I began feeling healthier in general, all because of the $6 water bottle I found at Target.

Then, when I decided to incorporate running into my daily routine, I went out and bought a brand new pair of sneakers. I love Nike in particular and I’d always wanted a pair of their Shox sneakers, but I never wanted to spend the money on them. Once I gave in and actually bought them, all I wanted to do was pop them on and go for a run. One new pair of shoes and just a few runs later, I’d lost 5 pounds! You’ve gotta love shoe shopping!

Getting back to my more childish trinkets– I was once making a run to the dollar store with one of my friends back home when I came across these chopsticks… yes, chopsticks. They were pink, plastic, and connected by a spring at the top so I wouldn’t actually have to know how to use them properly. They were pretty and only cost a dollar, so of course I bought them! I just wanted them because I thought they were kind of funny and they would amuse me at my next meal, but I soon found that they did more than just entertain me. Because they were a little harder to use than a fork, I found that I was taking my time while I was eating without realizing it. Eating slower gives your brain more time to process what you’ve eaten, and therefore makes you full faster. Because of the chopsticks, I lessened the size of my meals without even trying, and as a result I lost a few more pounds!

These are only three of thousands of purchases you can make to help keep yourself motivated. If we buy ourselves little gifts, it’s very common for us to be excited to use them; if we buy ourselves little gifts that can help contribute to our weight loss, we can actually get excited to get healthy. Even if what you buy costs you $100 out of your college budget, just consider it money spent on being a healthier person– I think that’s pretty worth it!

So yes, as crazy as it sounds, dropping money can and will help you drop some pounds. It’s a great concept– because it works. So go have fun indulging!

Simple solutions and healthy swaps

By Jennie Cullinane

There is no easy way to put it: dieting sucks.  In a quest to lose weight and get healthy, we eat the same dull and flavorless foods at every meal, telling ourselves that a bowl of fiber-rich, sugar-free cereal or two-slices of turkey on whole wheat is really “hitting the spot.”  We sacrifice the taste, variety, and fun of eating and settle into a dull routine of diet foods until, inevitably, we go a little crazy and eat a whole pepperoni pizza.

Nutritionists have been telling us for years that to avoid this trap of yo-yo dieting, we need to incorporate healthy-eating strategies into our daily lives – strategies that are not only feasible but maintainable in the long term.  Obviously, that is easier said than done.  The key to these long-term nutrition strategies is learning to make a few non-overwhelming changes to your eating habits that do not demand the drastic self-control most diets demand.  By observing a few of these simple food swaps, you can still indulge in the flavor of good food without the cost of calories, fat, and sugar.

Greek yogurt instead of sour cream

A popular addition to potatoes, tacos, and salad dressings, sour cream is the kind of dangerously-versatile condiment that seems to make any food better.  But at 5 grams of fat per two tablespoons and little nutritional value, sour cream has no room in a healthy-eating plan.  But with the tart taste and smooth texture of sour cream, Greek yogurt makes an excellent substitute.  Hailed as a superfood in recent years, Greek yogurt is high in protein, low in carbs, and easy to digest even for dieters with lactose-intolerances.

What you’ll save: By replacing 2 tablespoons of sour cream with 2 tablespoons of non-fat Greek yogurt, you will save 30 calories and 5 grams of fat.  In addition, the Greek yogurt will provide the boost in protein that sour cream lacks.

Added twist: Mix with salsa or mustard for a spicy kick.  Top on a sandwich, burrito, or potato for a some added zest.  If you’re looking to rework a conventional salad dressing, mix one cup of Greek yogurt with one packet of Ranch seasoning and use as a dip or dressing for vegetables.  You’ll save more than 100 calories and 14 grams of fat per serving!

Egg whites instead of whole eggs

One whole egg contains 6 grams of protein and all nine essential amino acids.  However, with 75 calories and 5 grams of fat per egg, your routine breakfast omelet can quickly snowball into a caloric bomb.  Next time, opt for egg whites.  An egg white contains 16 calories per serving and no fat, but still contains all the protein found in a whole egg.

What you’ll save: 64 calories and 5 grams of fat

Added twist: If the taste of egg whites is too bland for you, try mixing one whole egg and with one or two servings of egg whites.  The yolk of the whole egg will provide the “eggy” taste you have come to expect in your morning meal, but – with the added bulk of the egg whites – will come at half the caloric cost.

Avocado instead of Mayonnaise

 

With nearly 100 percent of its calories from fat, mayonnaise is every dieter’s nightmare.  At 50 calories per tablespoon, mayonnaise can quickly load a healthy sandwich or salad with unwanted calories and heart-hurting fats.  To avoid this calorie bomb without sacrificing the addition of a creamy condiment to your sandwich, try an avocado.  1/4 of an avocado contains approximately the same amount of calories and fat as a serving of mayonnaise, but the fat in avocados are primarily monounsaturated – the “good” kind of fat that lowers cholesterol and may prevent weight gain.  In addition, avocados are an excellent source of folate and vitamin E – essential for healthy skin and hair.

What you’ll save: Although nearly equal in calories and fat grams, you will save yourself from the saturated fat and sodium of mayonnaise by opting for an avocado next time you are looking for a sandwich spread.  In addition, this swap will help you reap the benefits of avocados monounsaturated fats, high fiber content, and vitamin E.

Added twist: Instead of simply slicing an avocado, try mashing it into a creamy consistency.  Mixing in diced onions, tomatoes, or even a few twists of fresh lemon can add zest to the rich taste of an avocado, layering your meal with fun flavors without sacrificing your diet.

Cottage cheese instead of salad dressing

 

Salads are probably the most predictable meal option on any diet plan.  A plate of fresh vegetables provides filling fiber and a variety of vitamins at little caloric cost.  However, most dieters don’t find a plate of raw vegetables to be the most appetizing meal option.  Therefore, we dress it up, topping our salads with cream and oil-based dressings that can contain up to 200 calories and 15 grams of fat per serving.  Therein lies the paradox of healthy eating: the only way most of us can stomach a plate of nutritionally-dense raw veggies is by coating them with fattening and artery-clogging toppings.  To avoid this trap, try mixing your salad with cottage cheese.  Cottage cheese provides the same creamy texture to your salad without the added fat and sugars.  In addition, cottage cheese also contains protein.  One serving of low-fat cottage cheese contains nearly 15 grams of protein that will hold off hunger and stimulate muscle repair.

What you’ll save: By swapping salad dressing with cottage cheese, you will save 100 calories and 15 grams of fat per serving.

Added twist: Squeeze 1/4 of a lemon on top of the cottage cheese before mixing it in your salad.  The lemon zest will provide an added kick to your new salad dressing, as well as providing a boost of vitamin C.

Milk instead of juice

 

When straying from the diet dictates of “water, water, water!” its tempting to choose sugar dense beverages like sodas and energy drinks.  Many dieters often perceive fruit juice as a healthier alternative.  Fruit juice companies often brag that one serving of a 100 percent juice-product can substitute as a daily fruit serving.  But with sometimes triple the calories and none of the filling fiber whole fruit contains,  a cup of fruit juice is really just a cup of added sugars and empty calories.  Instead, drink skim milk.  At 90 calories per cup, skim milk provides the boost of calcium that dieters often do not get enough of and offers 9 grams of the healthy proteins you need to maintain muscle mass and hold off hunger.

What you’ll save:  By reaching for the milk jug instead of the OJ carton, you will save 75 calories and 25 carbohydrates.

Added twist: Add two table-spoons of Hershey’s chocolate syrup for a glass of chocolate milk.  The addition of chocolate will help satisfy any dieter’s sweet tooth.  And at only 90 calories per serving and 19 grams of sugar, chocolate syrup provides that sugary-kick without ruining your diet regimen.  In further defense of chocolate milk, new research shows that chocolate milk is the ideal post-workout beverage.  Milk contains both the fast-acting whey protein that triggers muscle repair and the more slowly digested casein protein that provides a steady stream of amino acids to the body.  In addition, the added sugar from the chocolate drives glucose molecules into tissue muscle and replenishes energy for your next workout.

Tips

  • Beware of fat-free food items: Manufacturers often add sugar or salt to compensate for the removed fat and to boost flavor, sneaking in added sodium and carbohydrates that dieters try to avoid.  Instead, opt for low-fat products.  With usually a similar number of calories as their fat-free counterparts, low-fat products provide the same diet-friendly substitution without the added sugar.
  • Choose whole grains over refined: The white flour in foods like rice, pasta, and bread have plenty of calories and little nutritional value.  By refining grains, manufacturers strip these products of the nutrients that level blood sugar, causing your glucose levels to spike shortly after finishing your meal and tricking your body into thinking its hungry again.  Unrefined grains like brown rice and whole wheat pasta still contain these natural nutrients and have a higher fiber content, staving off hunger.  However, simply choosing a wheat wrap over a white isn’t enough.  Manufacturers can still refine the grains made to use “wheat” and “grain” bread.  Make sure the label says “100 percent whole wheat” and the primary grains listed on the ingredient list are “whole.”
  • Use artificial sweeteners in moderation: Sweeteners like Splenda and Sweet’n Lo are products of chemistry labs, not nature.  Introduced in the last century, our bodies have not fully evolved with these substances in our diets.  Because they are artificial, our bodies cannot easily digest these substances and some research claims this difficulty in digestion may prevent weight loss.

Tip Four: Cut the Excuses

By Lauren Duffy

Let’s review…

Tip Number One: Moderation and Purity

Tip Number Two: Find a Work Out that Works for You

Tip Number Three: Don’t Fall into the Compliments Trap

Tip Number Four: Cut the Excuses

Excuses. We’re all victims of them. Whether it’s homework, cleaning, chores, tasks, or just something that we don’t really want to do, we somehow formulate the perfect excuse to get out of it. Whether the excuse is a credible one or not, it sure sounds a lot better than doing something we don’t want to do. We all make excuses, and I was no exception. Unfortunately for me, working out and eating right (Tips One and Two) are were always huge victims of my own excuses over the years.

I remember sitting on my couch, watching my favorite TV show, and snuggling in the fluffiest blanket I owned– happy as a clam. Then it would hit me: “I haven’t worked out today… and I really don’t want to…” All it took was for me to make one simple and easy excuse to get me out of having to take off the blanket and step away from the family room, and that sounded like a much better plan than actually being active.

I could write a book on my old unhealthy excuses. Looking back, I realize that they were rather pathetic and always had an easy fix to them– “I can’t work out today because it’s cold out.” Get a jacket. “I can’t work out today because I’m tired.” Exercise gives you energy!

The eating excuses were no different– “I didn’t eat healthily today because I went out to eat.” Really? There wasn’t one single salad on the menu? “I can eat this cake because we’re celebrating my friend’s birthday.” So? Just pleasantly say: “I’ll pass, thank you.”

Each excuse helped me get lazier by the minute and add pounds along the way. Trust me, they are one of the worst habits to fall into if you have a goal. I cannot express how glad I am to have realized how detrimental they really are. The fact of the matter is: while excuses seem convenient at the time, all they cause is regret.

I think that it’s human nature to make excuses, so I’m not telling stop making them all together because I don’t know if that’s possible. But, you do need to learn to handle the excuses if you find you struggle with them.

So one of the most helpful things I learned to do is put it in perspective and see whether or not the excuse is worth making. For example, “I can eat this cake because we’re celebrating my friend’s birthday.” Look at that cake– will it look better untouched on the plate, or will it look better resting on your thighs. As my mom always says: “A moment on the lips, a lifetime on the hips.”

 

Excuses are tough to deal with, believe me, but they don’t have to control your routine! Tips One and Two can produce great results, but learning to handle the dilemmas behind Tips Three and Four can produce even better results! So next time you find yourself making a health-related excuse, take a step back and question whether it’s worth it. They put up a tough fight, but excuses can be beat!

What’s more important? Your current couch-potato state, or your health? You decide.